這些都是我們真正想說但卻壹直沒有勇氣或不知如何表達的話語。何不試著講出來，告訴那個妳心心念念的人，讓他知道妳壹直以來想對他說的心裏話，讓自己釋懷呢。
1. I love you. Asshole.
討厭鬼，其實我愛妳。
2. I’m sorry. I know it’s my fault, but it’s just really hard to put my pride aside and admit that to you.
對不起。我知道是我的錯，但我真的很難在妳面前放下驕傲承認錯誤。
3. I act the way I do because I’m really insecure. I wish you could understand that.
我之所以這樣，其實只是因為缺乏安全感。希望妳能理解。
4. I’m only jealous because I love you and I wish you could understand this and could be okay with me loving you as much as I do while still embracing my flaws. I promise I’m working on it.
我之所以醋意大發，只是因為我愛妳。我希望妳能理解，希望妳能接受我這肆無忌憚的愛，希望妳能包容我的缺點。我保證：我也壹定會努力克服它們！
5. I need you to give me attention. It’s just so juvenile and petty to ask for.
我需要妳的關註，雖然這樣的要求是那麽孩子氣、那麽小氣。
6. I’m embarrassed. I am embarrassed of the way my stomach rolls when I slouch. I am embarrassed of the fact that I fart and that I’ve made so many mistakes. Why? Who knows. It’s silly because as an intelligent, functioning person I should know that these things are normal, human and nothing to be judged for. But it’s because I care about you and I want you to see me in the best way possible.
我也會尷尬。我討厭坐下去時腰上的小肉肉，我討厭自己放屁，我還討厭自己毛毛躁躁總是犯錯。為什麽？反正我也搞不懂！雖然作為壹個智力正常的人，我也知道這些都不值得大驚小怪；但是，我是這樣在乎妳，多麽希望妳看到的我總是最好的啊！
7. I just want to know if you actually love me or if you make excuses because you don’t but also don’t want to hurt my feelings.
我只想知道妳是不是真的愛我，或者妳並不愛我，不停找借口只是因為不想傷害我？
8. I wish you would realize when you’re being an asshole. If you can’t figure this one out on your own, don’t get even angrier when I try to help you. Let our relationship facilitate some mutual growth. Honesty is vital to this and there are only a few people who will love you enough to risk you getting mad at them for them to tell you something that’s crucial to your development. Listen.
我希望妳也能看到自己身上令人討厭的部分，要是妳自己都發現不了這些缺點，那就不要煩我給妳指出來。我希望我倆能壹起成長。要知道，彼此坦誠非常重要。只有非常非常愛妳的人，才會不惜惹怒妳也要糾正妳的不足。所以，請耐心聽我說。
9. I just wasn’t that into you. We had a great time. I did my girl thing for a while where I got ahead of myself and dreamt up what our babies would look like but then decided I didn’t want them or you. And it’s nothing to be offended over. I just kind of wanted to tell you that it’s not me, it’s you. Or rather, it’s us, together. And it doesn’t mean there was or is anything wrong with you. You’re just not for me. I hope you can see how I’m not trying to insult you or that I don’t think less of you because of this. But this is the truth.
我其實並不那麽愛妳。的確，我們曾經很開心。我也曾像所有小女人壹樣幻想過我們的孩子如何如何。但是，我發現自己不想要孩子，甚至妳。其實這也不是什麽天大的事兒。我只想告訴妳：這並不是妳或我的問題，妳沒有任何錯，只不過我們在壹起不適合罷了。我希望妳能看到我的努力：我並沒有因為分手而將妳貶得壹無是處。事實如此。
10. Because when you tell me that you’re just not into me, I associate that with meaning I’m a worthless, unintelligent, undeserving, unattractive human being.
因為妳說妳不是很喜歡我，我覺得自己是個壹無是處、不值得愛、笨拙又不討喜的人。
11. Nothing has been the same since you’ve been gone.
妳離開後，物是人非。
12. Please give me another chance.
請再給我壹次機會吧。
13. Call me. Email me. You know and I know. I just don’t have the balls to do something about it. You, however, do, literally have the testicles, so if you would step up to the plate this once that would be great. Not because that’s your role as the guy. But because I’m admitting that this is a weakness of mine and I need a little help to get the ball rolling.
給我打電話，給我寫郵件。我們都心知肚明，是吧？我是女人，總得矜持壹點；但妳可是男子漢，只要這次能主動壹點，壹切都會好起來。我承認，這也不只是因為妳是男人，而是我實在放不開——所以，請妳先主動壹點吧！